Anonymous asked this question on 7/10/2000:

okay i'm 18 and my b/f of almost 2 years bestfriend is or has already fell for me and i'm falling for me and my b/f have to many problems his friend is a sweetheart i really like him. help me i'm so confused what should i do in this sitution?

Silvrain gave this response on 7/11/2000:

Well, my b/f of almost 4 years had a best friend once that I actually used to date before him. I still held these feelings inside, trying to ignore them. I actually thought about breaking up with my man over it! But what you need to do is sit down, and think about how much you care for him. Is it really worth giving up? You shouldn't take things for granted. Because true love is VERY hard to find. I finally confessed to my b/f these feelings, and he said fine if that is what will make you happy, then helooked at me all teary eyes, and made me realize that his friend would probably like me yes, but can he give me everything that the man right in front of me has?? You need to decide. Can the other man really, honestly give you more than your current b/f? I am sure he may be cuter, but look in his heart, true love is hard to find. Don't take for granted what you have, and throw it all away. Because he won't be there to pick up the peices, when your cutie breaks your heart.

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