Anonymous asked this question on 7/10/2000:

okay i'm 18 and my b/f of almost 2 years bestfriend is or has already fell for me and i'm falling for me and my b/f have to many problems his friend is a sweetheart i really like him. help me i'm so confused what should i do in this sitution?

male_stripper38 gave this response on 7/10/2000:

ok, your 18, and Still new at all the Dateing thing, so, you may be intidled to a few mistakes, but Just becareful, if you deside to go for the other guy, Just think of what to say, or put it to your B/f now... but for now, I would just think of it this way, it would be best to sit down, alone, and just serch your feelings for both of them.... right now, don't think about hurting eather one, think of what you want... or in this case, who you want to spend the well, let's think of it this way, the rest of your life with... to see what your feelings are for the both of them... and to see, what you want out of it... but befor I would make that dission, I would make sure that I would know that other person, befor I told my well, in my case, g/f... becuse, it may end up where you can't come back to your b/f... and say you didn't really like this guy as you thought you did, then what? you would be haveing another problem... so that's why you need to really think about it.... deep down in side of you, then when you come up with a desion, then that is when you would have to worry about what you would say to one, or the other, but try to not make it that long from now, other wise, it will hurt one or the other alot more then it would now...

any other qustions, feel free to ask me...

Your Advioser,

Ryan

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