Anonymous asked this question on 7/9/2000:

Hi, This is I think most commonly asked question. About Anal sex. I am a married man with succesful three years. My wife and me are having good sexual relationship. We both tries to do it in different ways for a fun. I wanted to do a anal sex with her, but she is not ready for that. Ofcourse she is having very small anal spot. But is it really difficult or painful? If not how can I convince her for that?

Thanks for your help.

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goldrup gave this response on 7/10/2000:

Well maybe if you tell her how it is done... it would be more helpful... it won't be painful if you do it nice and slow.... using fingers first... then adding one finger.. and so on and so on... until you have about 3 or 4 fingers in there (doing this all so slow).. then you can try your penis... now here is 2 websites that might help you (this might also include some other stuff about anal sex you might want to know):

http://www.sex.com/anal.html

http://www.sex.com/anal1.html

I hope you can convince her, because i had to convince my girlfried, and i did it by telling her how it was done... and had to do a little kissing up..

good luck and have fun! ~Goldrup~

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