deafchristian1988 asked this question on 7/7/2000:

Have you ever thought you got over a guy after several months, and then a song that reminds you of him made you cry again? He said he was going to work and got my new email from me -- and I never heard from him again...before that he asked about me and even went to the family reunion to talk to me one year. I have talked to him by phone on several occasions. I have this song called "I Know It" and it always reminds me of James....I started crying when that song was playing. Why did I have to do that? -- I realized that I can't get over him. Have you ever been this way before? Thanks for any answer you give me..I think I am still heartbroken over him -- I never did this for my ex-boyfriend in high school although I was sad when we broke up.

tiffaney8 gave this response on 7/10/2000:

Girl your really mixed up huh?? I think everybody has someone special they can't forget, whether it be an ex or a friend. Have you told him how you feel? Do you see him frequently? Maybe you need to see him face to face and get your feelings off your chest. I had dated a guy in highschool for 2 years and we broke up {it broke my heart} and i wen't on with my life, got married, and all that stuff. One night i ran into a mutual friend of ours who informed me that the guy i had dated was unhappily married. So being the person i am i called him. That was the end of my marriage. I knew then i still loved him and could never forget him. Now we're the best of friends and we talk about everything. Sometimes we tend to fool around but we're both single and it's kinda fun. but we realized we would always love each other but we we're better off friends. but it took seeing each other to realize that. You need to find him some how and see how you feel then. You may be like me and realize you all are better off as friewnds. Good luck!!!!!!