marianyahuye asked this question on 7/10/2000:

I am a single lady with two children. How do I tell a maried man that I am not interested in forming a relationship with him. I know a relationship like this will not get me anywhere because I know that it is not true love that they want from me. It is just lust, to put it blankly.

sophist4hire gave this response on 7/10/2000:

just put it bluntly to him. It will be easier and better for you in the long run