Anonymous asked this question on 7/12/2000:

Men:

In most of your responses there is an indication that in acts other than making love, there is no emotional involvement. Is this what you really feel? You see, when I am kissed romantically, I am involved emotionally. When I am involved in the depths of passion, the words I utter are emotional unless I have no soul! That is who we are as women I believe. How could we offer of ourselves so freely without also sharing our emotional being? Thoughts on this are deeply appreciated.

SeekTrueLove gave this response on 7/12/2000:

I can honestly say that in my opinion it is impossible for me to engage in any type of intimate behaviour without having any emotional involvement. I am just one man, however.

I do hear of instances where guys can have emotionless sex or kissing or whatever. And I also hear about women doing the same, although it is of a much rarer occurrence.

I cannot offer a reason why this happens. I can suggest that these emotionless people are not the types of people you would want to get emotionally involved with.

I agree with you that it's seems soulless to engage in these activities without any feelings involved. I don't like it though.

Anyways, that's just one guy's opinion.