Anonymous asked this question on 7/12/2000:

can you tell me how to do the most plesurable position for you and how it feels and how to do it to creat the most pleasure for both the male and the female and what is a sex toy? -*lolly*-

RomanceXpert gave this response on 7/12/2000:

well, i havent tried all postions there is cause then i would be a pretty busy (and much happier) person lol. i do enjoy mandatory postion though (man on top). im sorry to say this but the most pleasurable things for a man and a woman are usually 2 completely different things. it really depends on the person and what u enjoy, some guys enjoy anal intercourse better then anything, and some girls enjoy oral sex better then anything, it really just depends who u are. i think u should just ask your partner, thats the easiest way to know. in sex i find that foreplay is very important, some people dont think so but i think its vital for good sex. i'll give u a tip, go out to any books store and find some books on kama sutra and/or tantric sex, it will give u a tonne of ideas, u dont have to follow it word for word. even buy some kinky books if thats what your into, they are really fun and they'll give u even more ideas. sex toys are think like dildo's (plastic or silicon penis' that u could purchase at a sex shop), vibrator's (vibrating dildo's), whips and handcuffs (for things like dominatrix and bondage), stuff like that. i hope i answered your questions fully and if i didnt i apologize and urge u to write a follow-up question. good luck. and please rate this answer, i would really appreciate it.