Anonymous asked this question on 7/12/2000:

yes , im a 24 year old male with a question for you.... i have a problem meeting women these days for several reasons it seems. first off im never around any . secound off in this day and time i feel that aproaching a women these days will just give her the impression that all i want is sex....im not an ugly guy and plenty of people have complemented me on my intelect as well as other things...i just dont know how to get that first foot in the door of trust if you know what i mean.....can you give me any advice on how women like to be aproched....and how to let them no from the start your looking for something more then a 1 nite stand.....it would also help if you could give me tip on how to tell if shes interested before acul verbal contact....thanks

stockscience gave this response on 7/12/2000:

The idea is to keep conversation and activities "light" and easy. "hi, my name is _, do oyu live around here?", do you know where X is, I heard it is a cool place, couls you show me where it is, maybe we could go some time. Would you like to share a Latte with me. .... Maybe we could do it agin sometime.

Complement them on non-sexual things. "Hey you are funny", nice, bizarre, got a contagious smile, etc.

If a woman smiles at you, looks you in the eye, and seems to make some effort to be seen or heard by you she is testing the waters. On a date you can tell by body language how things are going.

Women want to be valued as people first after that wild sex is possible.,

To meet women I suggest joining a community ed course - or an exercise class.

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