dino890 asked this question on 7/11/2000:

i was going out with this guy for 3 month. We had sex wich i felt that i forced into. Suddenly he decides that he wants to go with my friend. He says that we can still have sex and going out. Does he still like me and how could i get him back since my friend doesn't like him.

Tarajio gave this response on 7/11/2000:

Dino890 .. Hello!

I feel so badly telling you this .. but this guy "likes-the-sex" only ... in all probablity. And do you know what forced sex is called? Forced sex is a crime. It is against the law. When you are "FORCED" .. you should report it to the authorities. If you do not want to have sex .. then say "No". All decent men honor the word "no" when in a sexual encounter with a woman. It is the real jerks and bad guys .. that have no repsect for a woman .. that do not accept the word no. BUT! .. NEVER have sex if you do not want to. It does not surprise me that your friend does not like him .. she probably sees that he is not a nice person. She probably knows what he has done to you .. and wants NO PART of him. I am SURE he still wants to have sex with you .. and go out. There is no reason he should give this up .. it is a sure thing whenever he needs it. This could ruin your self esteme .. and self respect for yourself. YOU take control of the situation .. and STOP the sex with him. Just tell him NO MORE! .. and if he forces you .. go to the authorites. Tell him since he wants to go with your friend .. to do just that .. go WITH HER! .. and to stay away from you. Find yourself some nice guy that will treat you great!!! One day, you will be so glad you did!! Best wishes and Good Luck!!