frankmon asked this question on 7/11/2000:

I've been dating this guy for 5 months now. Recently he decided he just wants to be friends, because he is not ready for a relationship right now. he says that I made him the happiest he had ever been, but it's all him and nothing about me? We still see each other and enjoy each others company, but I am confused and don't know what to do.

tink1972 gave this response on 7/11/2000:

Uh oh...seems like you found a guy that is afraid of committment for whatever reason. If this is a serious issue for you, then your best bet would be to tell him either we establish more here or we leave it totally as friendship, if you're not able to do this then I suggest you leave the situation completely alone.

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