frankmon asked this question on 7/11/2000:

I've been dating this guy for 5 months now. Recently he decided he just wants to be friends, because he is not ready for a relationship right now. he says that I made him the happiest he had ever been, but it's all him and nothing about me? We still see each other and enjoy each others company, but I am confused and don't know what to do.

Slut_uk gave this response on 7/11/2000:

Ive been there and tried to be friends with an ex and it is hard! If he says he wants to be friends ask him if this means he is ready to see u datinng other guys! You can either sit around waiting for this guy to come to his senses or you can find someone who appreciates and loves you! U want the security of a realtionship and if he cant see that and wants to lead u on then its about time u found a guy who loves u! Theres nothing like losing what you have to make you realize what you had! Good luck and remember that there is a guy out there who will love u heart and soul and will not leave u in the dark bout his feelings! Confront your ex bout how he feels and tell him you need to get things straight in your head for your own sanity! Be happy!

Love Carrie

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