CatGirl25 asked this question on 7/11/2000:

Hi. I am a 25 year old single mom of a 9 month old. I really want to have a relationship with a man. It is hard for me to get out to go to clubs, ect. Therefore, I have been meeting men online. My problem is that I really have no babysitter so I can't come and go as I please. Will I find a man who will understand and put up with this? Right now I am interested in this one guy. He lives 2 hours away and wants to meet half way sometimes. How do I explain that I can not just do this on call? And that my daughter will most likely have to tag along?....Thanks

behappy4u gave this response on 7/11/2000:

I feel like the best thing to do is have him come to your house. For one at night she will be sleeping,for two she will be in her own surroundings. 2 hours is not that far away for him to come for a visit. I was on vaction visiting my sister with 3 kids 700 miles from home when I met my boyfriend. I stayed thier a month and when i left to come home he came with me and moved in and we have been together 7 years. Long distance can work and it also can work with kids.If this is a guy whom you have never met then its safer to meet him at a coffee shop or public place at first.If you have to bring your daughter along if he wants to get to know you then believe me he will not care.

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